~{ 红蔷薇]

Time for a change...

Presenting the new layout of my blog!!!

I have been using the old layout of my blog for quite some time, it's about a year if i am not wrong. My friends had told me to change for a very long time but I never did. So finally 2 days ago i started changing the layout and i want it to be very different from the last one.

And i decided to change the title of my blog. No more Simply me. I am not that simple. A lot of things are happening around me and its not as simple as u see. U need to learn as this is part and parcel of life. I can't stick to the old me where i never bother bout anything. I had been neglecting all the responsibilities that i had to take. So i decided to change........

haha all load of rubbish!! The main reason I actually decided to change is becoz the old blog title sounds so childish!!! Maybe the new title is not any better but at least its less common and it suits the layout!! and for some reason i love the word 蔷薇. Sounds so classy but actually its in the same family as plants like roses.

Changing the layout is not easy business for me coz i am not good in computer. All the pictures had to be downloaded from the internet and i have to go through them and pick... editing the pics are also hard work, especially when u are not using adobe photoshop and using some simple programme such as paint. And the best part is , i need to learn what are those computer language!! U might think that i am mental to actually take so much time to change a layout. I can actually choose those templates provided by the host. But i just want it to be different. It's MY blog. Thus i want it to have more of me and my ideas in.

And one thing... that woman at the top and the bottom of the page is not my favourite singer/actress. I am just allright with her. It just happened that i have this pic of her which is quite nice and it can be used as a header so i decided to change it. Btw, its Elva Xiao 萧亚轩. She acted in Infernal affairs 1 ,and played a really minor role in it. And her songs are kinda okay, thou i have to say i love Jay Chou more =) But i have to say she is hawwwt ^^

oh yea not to forgot the song 蔷薇 is sung by Elva!! (highly recommended song)

This new layout is not completely done...minor touches still had to be made. but i kinda miss my old layout now coz my old layout has animated stars as background!! And this is not animated!!
But the main aim is to keep it simple so i guess i cant put in too many fancy stuff in it. I was thinking that it is now kinda complicated already so i better stop adding more and more stuffs in.

So ppl do tell me what else i need to add in/ take out to make it more interesting!! thankzzz

Wenying's Ten Commandments

Oh well its not exactly the 10 comandments, it's just some tag where u are suppose to write down 10 things about you which is weird/little known. Time to see what is wenying like... and see how well u know me ^_^

在前几天上网时候，其中一个网站看见这张照片。是朵白玫瑰 -- 流血的白玫瑰。对这花一见钟情。它高贵中带着忧伤，优雅里藏着伤悲哀。就像一些人，拥有坚强的外表，脆弱的玻璃心，一碰就碎。
It just has this sentimental value to me coz it reflects a lot of things to me. What a pretty flower.

Each player of this game starts off with ten weird things or habits or little known facts about yourself. People who get tagged must write in a blog of their own ten weird things or habits or little known facts as well as state this rule clearly. At the end you must choose six people to be tagged and list their names. No tagbacks!

I have a short term memory…
As in really really short term memory…can’t remember things clearly
I will always need a record for everything and need to repeat the same things to myself for the N times before I remember…even on books and stuff…and my own mobile number. There is once where I have this Maxis number for a few months and I never remember my number…and I only know it starts with a 012. (p/s: N is a variable in this case…)

There is also a something that i am very sure that no one will believe me. I might look very noisy in front of you, I might look very hyperactive and bubbly, but deep down inside I don't really fancy talking...seriously, especially when i am in my room. I always like to be alone in my room where no one will frantically knock on my door and talk. I always enjoy being alone with the peace and serinity with my music player playing my music. I am more of a person who loves being alone undisturbed when at home. My room is everything to me...mind you. (And strictly no intruders!! NO one gets in without asking me/ me inviting )No one comes knocking on my door just to say hello and walk away after that, or talk nonsence at the doorway. It just doesn't feel right doing so. The only time where i enjoy talking is when i am with people that knows me inside out, or people that i trust enough, or when i am hyper. So if u see me keeping quiet....means u are looking at the real me. Sometimes sitting alone in my room might look as if i am antisocial, but i am not that bad yet. Talking is just so not my thing...sometimes.
p/s: the only time to get me talking is to get me out of my room!!!

I am also a contradicting person.
I like clubbing but I don’t like techno and dance hits.
I am addicted to chocolates and have a phobia on chocolates at the same time.
I like being at home and I love going out at party at the same time (so I party in my room?!?! That doesn’t sound right)
I love being alone and I love being with people.
I am noisy but i dont like talking.

And for some weird reasons…I sometimes do dream bout me being "designer labelled" dressed like Paris Hilton with extra large Chanel/ Gucci sunshades with a huge Chloè / Fendi / Dior /Prada bag with Jimmy Choo shoes and some vintage MiuMiu/ Prada dress and holding a LG Prada phone or a D&G Motorola Razor V3 phone thou I am not a fan of bimbos like Paris Hilton (oops if I offended any of her fans) Or have a wardrobe fulled of Ralph Lauren/ DKNY/ Tommy Hilfiger/ Miss Sixty. Hence the Devil wears Prada ( I love that show for the number of those oh-so-glamorous clothes they have ~) wahhh serious day dreaming!!!! And i am NOT a Paris Hilton fan! (oh no...contradicting myself again =.=''')

I am a perfume freak. I love perfumes…and collect them. But I never remember to use them coz I tend to forget. This is because I have a very short term memory. And I tend to have bottles of them with the same smell but different brand…what a waste of money.

And I HATE it when I see others having the same things as me...especially if they are wearing the same clothes as me/ same shoes as me/carrying same bag as me when I am using it. The worst moment is when u see 4 other person wearing the same coat as you when u r d 1st person to get it!! Exact same thing!! Omggggg this is considered “pantang” for me and I won’t tolerate with that…and the worst part is that it took them forever to realize that they wear the same coat as me when it only took me 5 seconds to realise that!!! (I just want to be different but this is a really bad way to be different xD) Message to earth-lings :Don't dress like me coz I'm not trend starter!!

I used to have serious shoe and handbag fetish. I think most girls would love shoes and bags like me. But it’s just that I don’t have money!!! Whenever i walk into stores, the 1st thing i will touch is bags and i will just grab one nice looking ones and stare myself at the mirror (thou i have no intention of buying.) There are times where u can see me walking to and fro of the mirror carrying different bags each time while waiting for my friend to shop.If i shop for things for myself i will get high. Whenever I buy shoes/ handbags I will feel guilty on the 1^st few days (except for the recent ones which I seriously love)…but after that I will be happily using them and craving for more. But now I have been much better than usual…at least I stop walking into shops and buy shoes and handbags. Coz I want to b a good girl and save money =) *with that act cute look*
(p/s: I doubt anyone believe that statement but its true!!)

I like things to go according to plan, no matter how big/ small the plan it is. It JUST has to go according to plan. I do not like unpredictable stuff. And I really do hate it when something or someone pops up and messes up my initial plan coz I hate making changes to plans and stuff. You can call me stubborn or what-so-ever but yes I hate changing plans after a final decision is made in a particular matter. And beware…no one screws my plan up at the very last minute or else I won’t be a happy bunny (u have been warned *chuckles*) One thing i can tell u is that i will be in panic mode and will be fuming if my plans are screwed up by a person or some other unforseen circumstances. I dont have the patience to wait and stuff, even thou it's just waiting 5 mins, for example, for the bus. I always check the time of the bus/train/any other mode of transport before actually leaving the house and strangely enough i will memorise the time where a bus will come and such so that i will have alternatives just in case i missed the 1st bus. This shd b able to show how much I need things to go according to plan!! Punctuality is important!!!!

I love having loads of things around me. Thus the number of things in my room is unimaginable. Though I don’t use almost half of the things in my room, I just like the idea of having loads of things to make u feel contented. My study table has to have loads of things thou they are not academically related. My bed has to have loads of pillows thou I don’t use all of them. The wardrobe has to have loads of clothes though I don’t wear all of them. Or to b exact an empty room sucks. My room is my everything...so means i am practically married to most of the stuff in my room =) especially all my shoes and bags!

I cannot understand why people can’t just arrange their files and folders properly in the computer. There are folders such as “my music” and ‘my pictures’ but I have seen too many ppl who won’t want to use those folders well. I just cannot accept the fact that the music and picture file are scattered around the computer without arranging it. And I have a habit of naming every single song that I hear with the complete album title and album artist and song title. Or else I won’t be listening to the particular song. And I do not like desktop icons. I love my computer to be “desktop icon” free and I will try my best to get rid as many desktop icons as possible.

Oh well i cant be bothered to tag everyone back coz i am pretty sure that no one will do this.Blame that ghee for doing this to me.

p/s: I dont think that what i write is something weird/ little known. Ppl who know me shd know this XD