"D" for dating??

Before you read this, please on ur speaker, got nice music =) (I like means nice...LoL)
Btw da controller is at the end of da post...

I have been reading ppl's blog a lot...since i am so damn bored and i found out something in a frens blog and make me realise something...

“喜欢的人不出现， 出现的人不喜欢。。。”

And relating to that word i juz realise somethings rather obvious durnig this festive season..

haha now wat season is this...i have been going online rather often this Xmas and i just realise a lot of my friends MSN nick name...haha not only just Xmas spirit.... wat i think is a lot of them are actually in Love...woo.....tts interesting...
u can find ppl writing things like that in their MSN nick... and that keeps the Kaypo me wondering a lot...

Wat month is this?? Dating month?? haha is december..and "D" does not stand for dating!!!!
Yea yea i know Xmas is a time for u and ur loved ones to share together....
But how come everyone?!?!?!
And even people like me put quotes where u learn from movies and my frens are saying that i am in love???? wat madness is that??!!??!!

Anyway....back to that chinese sentence.....
it's from a chinese song which i dun remember who sang it or the title of the song....

After some chat with an old fren....who i have never meet since secondary school...
I think is rather true also....maybe for lots of people...i am trying to sit on the fence now....so dun ask me whether that sentence apply to me or not...lol (And yea, i dont talk as if i have a bf like that okay...haha dont simply think all sorts of rubbish lol)

In my opinion,
I think that sentence is good...haha...
some people met their soulmate at the right time and thus their case is 喜欢的人出现在对的时间。。。
Not all people are as lucky as them rite?

and i would like to say some things since is my blog (no offence yea...sorry to those if i DID say sumthing really bad or wrong...)
Things like that depends solely on the time factor, when the time is right u will meet the one that u like, maybe the person is already around you, is just that you have never notice his/her presence
Like i say..time factor...this needs time to realise, to discover, to start to love...
to like a someone depends on the timing, not how much u work ard for it...sometimes even you work hard to get the person u like, u may never know the person u have always like is taken long long time ago...
timing is the only factor in relationship like these...
So guys and gals..look around, u might think that the person u like is not there but hey u never know maybe there is a someone around you who is actually waiting for u....
Maybe u might start to like that person...who knows
Wat is important in this is the feeling.... there is no such thing as planning to search for da Mr or Miss Right. Some might even end up liking their Mr/Miss Wrong!!!
Like i say just now, relationship is not about how hard you try to find it. It is about the time where you happen to meet the person you like. And later when you have found the person u like, hard work is wat you need to maintain the relationship. effort have to be put inside so that things will always work out fine for u....
SO guys and gals, quit rejecting people even if that person is not your Mr right/miss right. wat i think is as long as ypu have feling towards that person, even if he is not your Mr/Miss right, y not give it a try??

So people be more sensitive about things around you, dont keep things like that to yourself, if you like them, say it...dont keep it to yourself, if u never try u will never know. there might be some rejections but MAYBE the person u like has been waiting for u a long long time ago, waiting for u to say that, rite?

所以说。。。这些事需要时间，可能有一天喜欢的人会出现， 出现的人会喜欢。。。你永远不知道。。。
对我来说， “爱”是全世界最难解时的字， 最难让人明白的字，字典解释也解释不了的。 它， 没有解释， 不是因为它太深奥， 是因为它太简单。。。简单得不需要字解释。。它不是一下子就说得清楚， 它要靠感觉， 靠时间，靠知觉。。。

Haha i know this post might sound a little bit absurd with lots of grammar mistake but who cares, i wrote that down at te moment where things come into my head...thats wat i wanna tell people around the world bout wat exactly i am thinking... those words come from my heart and you dont alwiz get me saying things right from my heart since i am person who tends to keep things/ troubles to myself...lol (And yea i translate that directly from chinese so it might sound a little bit odd...lol)

Took me an hr to string all da words i try to say....that shows how bad is my english and my chinese... I lack writing skills...lol

Some things that might interest people that are still waiting for wat we call their "true love" O.o

Mr.Right/Miss Right

許多人往往在抉擇伴侶時，容易東想西想，不知所措，
就是因為害怕一時做錯決定，看錯人，造成終生的遺憾。


諾貝爾文學獎得主蕭伯納說：「此時此刻在地球上，
約有兩萬個人適合當你的人生伴侶，就看你先遇到哪一個，
如果在第二個理想伴侶出現之前，你已經跟前一個人發展出
相知相惜、互相信賴的深層關係，那後者就會變成你的好朋友，
　
但是若你跟前一個人沒有培養出深層關係，感情就容易動搖、變心，
直到你與這些理想伴侶候選人的其中一位擁有穩固的深情，
才是幸福的開始，漂泊的結束。」

愛上一個人不需要靠努力，只需要靠「際遇」，
是上天的安排，但是「持續地愛一個人」 就要靠「努力」，在愛情的經營中，
順暢運轉的要素就是溝通、體諒、包容與自制(面臨誘惑有所自制)。

有許多人總是為「際遇」所迷惑與苦惱，意念不停、慾念不斷、爭逐不散，
而忘了培養經營感情的能力才是幸福的關鍵。
所以不要去追問到底誰才是我的Mr.Right / Miss Right，
　
而是要問說在眼前的伴侶關係中，我能努力到什麼程度、
成長到什麼程度，若沒有培養出經營幸福的能力，
就算真的 Mr / Miss Right出現在你身邊，
　
幸福依然會錯過的，而活在猶疑與遺憾當中，
這不就是許多愛情虛

無症的遭遇與心態嗎？
若你此刻已有一位長久相伴的伴侶，
不要再隨便三心二意地猶疑了，
　
我們往往不易察覺感情中的一個陷阱，
就是「近親生慢侮」，也就是經濟學中的鐵律
「邊際效益遞減法則」，
　
跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木與忽視，
而新鮮的「際遇」總是那麼動人可愛。

在感情對待中，難免有摩擦與無心的傷害，
而且論得罪自己的次數累加起來最多的人，
當然是跟我們在一起最久、最親近的人；
　
而新歡呢，又還沒開始有得罪你的機會，
再加上他的刻意討好，所以新歡怎麼看怎麼可愛，
舊愛怎麼看怎麼討厭。
　
但別忘了，新歡身上總是有不確定的未知數，
舊愛身上就是有難得的熟悉感、確定感、信賴感。
千萬不要隨便在偶然的「際遇」中迷失了自己，錯放了幸福溫暖的手。
　
所以蕭伯納的話，是要提醒情人不要太鑽牛角尖於尋覓那唯一，
應該把精神用在學會經營幸福的能力上，
同時也提醒我們「溺水三千，只取一瓢飲」。

若有幸遇到了難得的伴侶，就不要再三心二意了，
因為我們永遠不知道一生何時會遇到兩萬個其中的幾個，
所以要知福惜福、活在當下。

幾米........文章:
　
我遇到貓在潛水，
卻沒遇到你。
　
我遇到狗在爬樹，
卻沒遇到你。
　
我遇到夏天飄雪，
卻沒遇到你。
　
我遇到冬天颳風，
卻沒遇到你。
　
我遇到豬都在結網了，
卻還是沒有遇到你。
　
我遇到所有的不平凡，
卻一直遇不到平凡的你。

人的不快樂往往在於不知道珍愛自己有的, 卻去羨慕別人有的
人的失敗卻又常常源於不懂得開發自己有的, 卻去妒嫉別人有的
緣份是找到包容你的人 ^o^

So yea to those people (U know who) dont get over depressed for not getting a bf/gf, take it as a challenge from God to test your patience, one day u will get what u want =) Good Luck yea

一千年以后
歌手：林俊杰 专辑：编号89757

心跳乱了节奏
梦也不自由
爱时的绝对承诺不说
沉到一千年以后
放任无奈淹没尘埃
我在废墟之中守着你走来
我的泪光承载不了
所有一切你要的爱
因为在一千年以后
世界早已没有我
无法深情挽着你的手
浅吻着你额头
别等到一千年以后
所有人都遗忘了我
那时红色黄昏的沙漠
能有谁解开缠绕千年的寂寞

@God Bless@

p/s: Click on da title to listen to the JJ 林俊杰 song...

p/p/s: my longest post so far i think =)

p/p/p/s: if u are wondering how come i write this...haha it is inspired by CK's blog...dat old post bout da song...